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Wednesday, September 28, 2016
Fixing Fractured Families... thoughts
1. Immigration levels are at all time highs. This is not Hispanic. This is other cultures. Middle East, Asian, African, and some Hispanic.
2. Cultural morass ensues. How do you immigrate and integrate into anarchy? There is a loss of moral center. Our churches are failing and flailing. Our solutions don't work.
3. Families are fractured. 41% of kids are born into unmarried situations. 40% of kids have no father in the home. Lifelong dads. Kids need 'em. It takes two to tango. It takes a good balance of father and mother. Not to be too simplistic, but no body is born without the contribution of male and female. It is a natural, creative design. Humans are not asexual. Abandonment of children by fathers is a tragedy.
4. Violence is high, especially among people in their 20s and 30s.
5. Drugs, alcohol, legal and illegal addictions are rampant.
6. Jobs will not fix this. Political rhetoric will not fix this. Good deals will not fix this. Fixing fractured families will fix this. The government does horrible in fixing fractured families. That is the job of kingdom minded people.
Think! Study! Pray! Act!
Monday, December 31, 2012
Friend, Be blessed. Greeting A New Year and A New Day Through the Eyes of a Father's Heart
“Bring to me what You have spoken of me.”
Genesis 18:19 19 For I have known him, in order that he may command his children and his household after him, that they keep the way of the LORD, to do righteousness and justice, that the LORD may bring to Abraham what He has spoken to him.”
“Bring to me, God, what you have spoken of me.” That is my prayer. I want what Abraham had. Every day for a week, I have prayed it all day long. In the night, I wake praying that prayer. In just a few days, we launch a major initiative for Fathers and Leaders. It will take enormous time, talent, and finances. Anything worth doing will meet resistance on all fronts.
This New Year, as I consider next steps, my heart turns toward my physical and spiritual and relational children. All are important. As a Dad, the children of my wife, Dian, and I are precious. They count a lot in my thinking and praying. As a pastor of some 30 years in the same metro and now assisting in Mexico and across the United States, spiritual children who look to me for guidance and leadership are priceless. As a businessman and manager and community participant, those that look to me for direction are powerfully on my mind. As a personal mentor of men, those that look to me are present in my thoughts. In all of these ways people have been impacted and had direction pushed into their lives through example.

“Bring to me, God, what you have spoken of me.”
Abraham was a commander of lives. Command pushes. Command influences. Command is generally not gentle. In Genesis 18:19, God tells us that Abraham received so that he could ‘command’ into the lives of his children and his grandchildren and his community. He was to command righteousness and justice. He was to command the way of the Lord. God gave to Abraham what He had spoken of him because He could trust him to live the message into the lives of others. Abraham was a generational influencer. God gave him much because of that.
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Sunday, December 16, 2012
See a Great Light! Merry Christmas, Friend.
Isaiah 9: In Galilee of the Gentiles. The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who dwelt in the land of the shadow of death, upon them a light has shined.
During the weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas, my family has always enjoyed watching Christmas themed movies and celebrating time with friends. For us, an opportunity to have a world focused on giving and receiving and thanking the God of Comfort is special. More so, the stirring story of God become man to bring us back into unity with Him and each other lifts my soul. Whether you believe it or not, you have to admit, Friend, it is a great message of hope.
I am thankful for each of my friends and family. The honor to exchange prayer with you, Friend, is a blessing.
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Monday, December 3, 2012
Finding Time To Get It All Done
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Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Our nation struggles, Friend. You can make it better.
Phil Larson has worked diligently for the past 15 years to strengthen fathers and families. His efforts have provided hope for many households. With your help he can accomplish much more and I look forward to seeing the results across Oklahoma, the Mid-West and the U.S." Ken R Canfield PhD, Founder, National Center for Fathering, Director, Urban Center for the Family. World Impact, Los Angeles, CA.
Your support of fathers, leaders, and pastors makes enormous difference. Together, Friend, we can educate and encourage thousands of fathers and strengthen their families by reaching where it is hard to reach.
The moral strength of our nation has atrophied in the last five decades. Fathers need strengthening. The leadership mindset in business, government, congregation and community develops from fathers. The leaders developed in a world of fatherlessness need strengthening. From 1960 forward, we have seen a disastrous rise in fatherlessness and related social ills such as divorce, suicide, abortion, sexually transmitted diseases, drug usage, and moral apathy. Unmarried birth has skyrocketed to 40% of all births and primarily to women in their twenties and thirties.
Fathers and Families
What love can engulf our families through the message of Godly fathering? "I am aware that you, Phil, are a man of great persistence and determination to spread the Word of God to encourage others. ….. express my appreciation and say that I understand how important "Fathering" and good loving fathers are. My hope is that you will be successful in this effort” .an Oklahoma City dad.
Community and Congregation Leaders
What blessing can engage our congregations through powerful prayer and counsel for pastors and ministers? “You must continue to reach pastors, Phil. You have been anointed for it. It has meant much to me.” Pastor of a large Black Baptist congregation
Government and Legislative Leaders
What would be the impact on our nation if every legislator in our nation received hope and peace and grace as the present 3242 we reach? “I want to take a moment to “THANK YOU” for your prayers and for every email I have received from you during this session. Sir, this is my 6th session since my initial election and, by far, this has been my most enjoyable and successful session. …I give God the ultimate credit for everything that occurs every day, but know that you deserve a tremendous amount of credit for keeping me on the right path with every expression of support and encouragement. Thank you again and my God bless you.”
We intend to find out.
In past years, all of these areas have been a part of our efforts and energy. Yet, there has never been enough time while working 60+ hours a week in the business community. Now it is time to turn the tables and give the lion’s share of time to the community and flexible hours to business. That can only happen with your help and hundreds of others like you.
Fathers and leaders count with me.
Our nation struggles with family bonding and long term fathering engagement. The results are horrid.
Research is clear, Friend. When the father stays actively engaged with his children, there are specific results.
1. They perform better in school.
2. They are less likely to live poor.
3. They are less likely to be engaged in criminal activity
4. They are less likely to engage in destructive behaviors such as drug use and early sexual activity.
5. They become more compassionate adults.
In Oklahoma, we started a good thrust in support of fathers in 2001 and have continued over the years. More Father/Daughter Summits have been held here than in any other city in the nation. Men have been trained and enabled. Counselors and social workers and ministers have been trained in new techniques. Citywide campaigns and single congregation campaigns have educated and enabled thousands of men and women. Children have been blessed. Community cooperation with CBMC, the Oklahoma Family Policy Council, American Fidelity, US Security, the Department of Human Services, CDC, Character First, business leaders, and hundreds of congregations of multi-cultural and multi-denominational background has benefited us all through more family stability and generational blessing. This has extended in support of leaders in congregations and community.
Now, I have a dream.
It is time to develop our community with targeted and morally responsible resources and support for fathers and leaders. Right now, I am working with Carey Casey and the National Center for Fathering to bring an affiliate of the NCF to Oklahoma on a full time basis. In January, I will meet with a brainstorm team in Kansas City at the National Center to make further plans for Oklahoma City.
We need your input and we need your support.
Dream with me.
· An interactive resource place for men to come and receive advice and education. Online and onsite.
· Continual community visibility through education in business, congregation, and governmental interaction.
· Constant equipping of community leaders such as pastors, men's group leaders, social workers, counselors, and others to equip and empower men as effective fathers and leaders.
· A strong and visible voice for families and fathers and two parent homes.
This dream is real. It is in motion. We need your support.
What dream do you have to support fathers and families?
Talk to me now. Don’t delay your action and your feedback. Do something positive about the next generation. Do something distinctive for this generation. NOW!
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Saturday, November 17, 2012
Have a Great ThanksLiving, Friend. You are dear to God's heart this morning. I am thankful for you.
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Tuesday, October 30, 2012
A prayer for peace and restoration, Friend, in a time of destruction and loss.
As our nation reels from the destructive force of natural disaster, the words of Esther come to mind. "For how can I endure to see the evil that will come to my people? Or how can I endure to see the destruction of my countrymen?" Esther 8:6
Our nation has suffered an enormous loss of property, life, and safety during this battering. How can I endure seeing the destruction that has come to friends, Friend? How can I endure the destruction of my countrymen?
Esther received a solution and a hope in her situation. She received a reversal of the situation for others and a plan to continue in blessing.
So I pray today and ask you to join with me, Friend,for:
A hope and a peace for all those affected in the aftermath of this disaster.
A strength and an endurance for all pummeled in this storm.
A restoration of property and a sense of security to all those uprooted and whose lives will never be the same.
A reestablishment of life and business and community and neighborhood as quickly as possible.
A sure faith in the future for all that this too will pass and a new day will dawn with new solutions for these communities.
Wisdom and decisiveness for leaders and rescue workers and engineers and those looking to reconstruct and replace and secure.
In Him,
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Sunday, October 28, 2012
Be a God Follower, prayermetro.grace@blogger.com.
In May of 2011, a group of legislators challenged me to finish a book on Hezekiah. In 30 days, the 120 page book was completed. This is a small excerpt relative to our day. Even this excerpt has had 50% of the text of the chapter deleted to allow for a quick read of the high points. As we prepare for elections, it seems relevant.
Hezekiah was a God-Follower – It Rerouted His Life from Bad Example
II Kings 18: 5: He trusted in the LORD God of Israel; so that after him was none like him among all the kings of Judah, nor any that were before him.
“Preach the gospel at all times and when necessary use words.” St. Francis of Assisi
Trust In God
…... Here is a man, who with little resource, pulled off the greatest upset against the giant of his day. His strongest resource was trust of God.
Common Creation
……Here is a man like us. Young, ambitious, and filled with a life of bad examples, he chose to set a different path. ……..
Greatness Enjoined Willingly By Others
…, he saw accomplished through leadership first in example and second in commanding action that so impressed others they left their commonness and joined him in greatness.
Cultural Imperatives
Our nation of the United States is under testing. Other nations have similar challenges. There is nothing new about the tests before us. Trials come in waves over the centuries. Equality is always questioned by some group and requires a constant adjustment as a nation of ever new citizens grows. Racial barriers rise in differing manners, but they will never totally subside. Poverty will always be with us and require constant adjustment and compassion to address. Distribution of wealth through taxation and business legal edicts will never be resolved to everyone’s satisfaction. Governance issues of when and how much to restrict use of common resources and contain greed through legislative restraint remain. Freedoms of speech, religion, and self-assertion need protecting.
How we act today as states and nations leaves the next generation a different set of symptoms of problems than ours. The issues are the same at the core. Leadership cannot rest once an issue is significantly addressed. Leadership is required for continuance of peace and community stability and economic prosperity. Hezekiah had been left with pain and bad example. He left a better line to follow.
Action: Take time to remember a good example left you from the last generation. Too often we focus on the bad and miss the good. There is blessing you can carry forward stronger than the last generation.
Prayer: Father, pull from our heritage goodness. Yes, You placed goodness in our heritage from which we can grow. There is a path in our past meant to be stronger. Help us to sort through the bad and find the good. Help us to pass it on stronger and better.
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Friday, October 26, 2012
The mercies of the Lord are new every morning and Friend, you should enjoy them!
Here is the link to our latest update on Matamoros. My wife, Dian, and I will travel down next week.
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Sunday, October 21, 2012
A forecast of joy and gladness for Friend.
Psalm 90:14-15 Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days. Make us glad for as many days as you have afflicted us, for as many years as we have seen trouble.
It is common to check the weather forecast before going to bed. When you rise, don't you look out the door to see how it looks? This psalmist decided to write his own forecast.
The psalmist in the prior text writes about his issues. But he started by acknowledging the greatness and goodness of God. He closes with a prayer of hope and healing. His pains are framed in power and praise and potential. What a great way to frame the day. Satisfy me in the morning and the rest of the day can have joy and gladness. Sure there are pains and problems. The touch of the Father is bigger than all my problems and greater than all my fears and more abundant than all my losses.
The forecast for our day lies in the choices of the day.
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Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Many places to live and minister, Friend.
John 14:1-2 Don't fret. Don't let your heart be anxious and troubled. Trust in the Lord God, the Creator. Trust in me for We are One. In my Father's house there are many places. Each of you has room to spare. There is a place for you. Were it not so, I would have told you. Yet, now I go to prepare a place for each of you. (Phil's version)
Now, Friend, there are few ways you can look at this paragraph. Of course the intent is to let us know that we should not worry about the troubles we encounter. They will be handled by the power and grace of God. Trust Him. Again, there is the intent to let us know there will never be a lack of room for us with God. He always has room for us. Yet, there is another message in here, I believe.
The concept of room or dwelling place or abode or mansion as some interpreters explain can easily be applied to our course in this life. There are many places and portions of ministry and involvement available for us right now in this life. Has not Jesus gone to the Father to make intercession continually? Has not the blood of the Christ opened a blessing for us to access Him? Has not the going of Jesus not opened a pouring of the Holy Spirit to empower us for service and dispense gifts on and through us?
Of course all of this and more is available. There are many opportunities for us to serve and be of great value in this life in the family. There is room enough for all of us to share in serving fruitfully and respectfully in Christ.
As we studied the word at Starbucks, a young gentleman shared his joy. He only recently received Christ. I don't know the whole story, but he was headed from North Carolina to Seattle and became delayed in Oklahoma City. In that delay, he met a member of our small study. In the course of a few weeks, his conversion and involvement with Christ impressed his cousin in Seattle. She wanted to know what had happened and told him she wanted whatever it was that he had. Here we were on the patio of Starbucks studying scripture with a laptop on a table as he unfolded this incredible story. Luckily, I had put the lessons out on slideshare (
www.slideshare.net/palarson2010). Now he could share them directly with his cousin in Seattle. He immediately put the lessons as favorites on his phone so he could review them multiple times and share with others. A new believer is now teaching the word to others.There are many places of ministry in Christ for each of us. A home, a patio at Starbucks, an email, a slideshare site, facebook, a phone call, or whatever suits the need becomes a room for Jesus to occupy. A note, a lesson, a conversation, a visit, or just listening all become room enough for Jesus to move. Here, two people from North Carolina and Seattle are receiving Christ through a small group in Oklahoma. There is room enough for His miracles when we trust and obey.
Prayer: Father, I pray for room enough for Friend. Yes, Jesus is preparing places for us right now, not just in the future. There are open patios of opportunity to share the gospel when we believe there are many places not just one. When we open to see all the availability of gift and grace in time and space, we can see Jesus alive in so many new ways. Teach us, Father, the principles of the kingdom. You are full of more than enough supply of resources to see the kingdom expanded in new and beautiful ways. Help us to trust that others might live and love in Jesus as part of our wonderful and growing family.
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Saturday, October 6, 2012
A Blessing of Hope for Friend
A Blessing of Hope for Friend.
Friend, these last few weeks have brought much hope.
New International Version (©1984)
And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones because he is my disciple, I tell you the truth, he will certainly not lose his reward."
My wife works as a counselor with depressed senior adults and also works with an urban mission assisting elementary children in learning. Of course, her conversations are in strictest confidence, but she can relay to me to depth of struggle she sees every day. We hold each other up in prayer and she goes daily into the face of strain to bring hope and healing with the love of Christ.
One of my daughters works with development of the largest suicide hotline in our state. Yes, she hears and sees much pain. We pray and she goes daily into the face of strain to bring hope and healing with the love of Christ.
My other daughter and her husband are emergency foster parents. That means my wife and I are emergency foster grandparents. The strain of a drug impacted infant and young children forced to undergo abrupt life changes is daily faced with hope and healing with the love of Christ.
Each week, I work to make time to pray with business and community leaders at the Jesus House, a homeless recovery center and outreach to the working poor in our city. We face our times together with hope and healing in the love of Christ.
So many I know take time to reach out and give that hope and healing of Christ on a personal and face to face basis. It is tough to look into the eyes of strain and struggle and offer hope, but it is right and good and just. It is good to be surrounded with givers of hope.
So where is the hope? In such days of need in our communities, there is always hope and healing in Christ. I get to see it every day as family and friends take personal time to impact someone in need. I get to see the face of Christ shining in their faces. That is a beautiful hope.
Prayer:
Father, I pray for Friend this week. Allow Friend to see the face of Christ in a friend or family member and even in the mirror as the hope of Christ is offered to such as these. It is our privilege to offer love in tangible action and goods and in words of strong encouragement and love. Grow in us, Father, that our nation would be exploded with action from individuals and blessed in our communities. May we never forget that our hands and our face and our actions are a powerful source of hope and healing for many that no other source can provide. When we are unable to go, give us strength to send hope and healing through encouraging those that can. When we are faced with the strain and struggle ourselves, send a face of hope and healing to bless us. Let the peace of God that passes all understanding engage us in Christ Jesus and bring grace sufficient for every situation.
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