Hmmm... Perfect, Perfected, Perfecting

Matthew 5: 45 that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46  If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47  And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

 

The Message of Christ

The message of Christ can be merry or lonely.   During the depth of winter and the shortest days of the year, we offer celebration and tinsel and gift giving. The world groans for rescue from loneliness.  People duck behind computer screens in bedrooms and living rooms.  Time is consumed with fish and farm that will never be smelled, touched, or bite back.  Churches are full of services meant for the indoctrinated while extending meaningless invitations to the leprous.  When the invited come, few really connect, we are too busy with each other and our secret handshakes and vocabulary.   Sterile relationships can never share a cold or a Christ.  

Our world is full of shallow and painful relationships.  Jesus offers friendship that can be felt.  The message of Christ offers acceptance and friendship that is fellowship to all of us.  Jesus stepped out from the great beyond of the untouchable and brought God face to face and hand to hand to us. 

Catching Christ

 

Christ can be caught.  While Christ is a title indicating the anointed, the messiah, the savior, there is a man/God behind the tile.  Jesus is contagious.  His attitude is contagious.  His thoughts are contagious.  His approach to living is contagious.  God reached to us to touch us and infect us.  He makes us perfect.  He makes us like Him.

 

Perfected

Being perfect is less about being perfect than it is about being God-like and infected and perfected.  Love the unlovely and the lovely.  Greet with honest appreciation and thanksgiving, each.  Each person is placed as a gift of God to us.  Receive the gift offered.  Make a place.  Don’t get hung up so much on “your thang” than you leave out the person sitting next to you.  Quit breeding loneliness in others by focusing so much on “your thang”.  That is perfection.

 

Perfecting

Be a perfecting person that changes the world in which you live.  Who do you need to touch?  Who could use a face to face visit?  Who could use a hug outside the foyer of the church building?  Who needs a smile that locks and looks eye to eye longer than an uncomfortable quickie at the checkout counter?  Who could use a word of encouragement that is thought through and covered with prayer?

Repentance = Mind Change

Okay, I am feeling convicted at this moment.  Every time the word’s of God and the example of Christ touch me, I get a little uncomfortable.  That is purposeful on His part.  He is contagious.  To repent means to change your mind.  That might be a good vocabulary change for the Christ folk.  Who in the heck understands that religious idea of repentance?  Most of us struggle to accept a new thought.  Most of us struggle to give up an old thought.  There, try that one.

Right now, I am thinking of some not so close relationships that should be closer.  Over time, I have let them become distant.  They are unlovely.  They are painful to the touch.

 

Let’s Pray

Father, how do I get beyond my own resistance to change?  Touch me.  I am unlovely in so many ways.  Maybe, I think I am super lovely.  But, there are ways in which I am really unlovely.  You keep touching me.  You keep coming to me.  You never let up.  Teach me to do the same with those around me that seem unlovely.  Really, they are most lovely.  You love them.  You offer them friendship and fellowship.  Jesus sat with the blatant prostitute and the thief and the sloppy drunk.  He even took time for mother-in-laws and government tax agents and politicians and lawyers and whiny busybodies.  He called them friends.  Break me out of my shell to do the same.  That is the real message of Christ.  All are human and fragile and flawed and failed.  All are worth being loved and changed and infected and perfected.

 

 

Phil Larson, 508 Tumbleweed Dr., Yukon, Oklahoma 73099  405-388-8037

 

The Extra Mile

Matthew 5: 39: But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. 40: And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloke also. 41: And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain. 42: Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away.

 

Going the extra mile for others is the essence of longsuffering.   Suffering is quiet.  To suffer means to allow.  Longsuffering means to allow for a long time.  Jesus defines it even further.  He looks for opportunity to suffer, to allow others to use Him and His resources.  Jesus is absolutely bent on being used by others.  The quest for Him is not about what others ask of Him, but about how He can offer beyond the asking.

 

Working with a team that was split on commitment was tough.  Each had valid points.  Each was entrenched in opposite directions.  Longsuffering was tested.  The division had been ongoing in the company for six years and then some.  Jack decided to be the walking mat.  Someone had to let others “take advantage” to gain some trust and ground.  It was tough, but over time some of the animosities began to turn into friendships.  He was hopeful to really seem some team progress.  This last meeting had been half the team directing criticisms at his area.  Not much was founded in present reality, but at least they were venting openly instead of behind his back.  There was hope.

 

ACT!  Who is asking for a piece of you or your time?  What can you do that goes beyond the asking?  Do it.

 

PRAY!  Holy, Gracious Father, the light and love of Jesus are beyond me.  When I ask, He does more.  When I impose, He expands the request to more.  It seems I cannot put more demand than He can answer.  Help me to suffer-long with others, Father.  Help me to be like Jesus and go the extra mile with a smile.

  

 

 

Phil Larson, 508 Tumbleweed Dr., Yukon, Oklahoma 73099  405-388-8037

 

Straight

Matthew 5:  33"Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'Do not break your oath, but keep the oaths you have made to the Lord.' 34 But I tell you, Do not swear at all: either by heaven, for it is God's throne; 35 or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. 36 And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. 37 Simply let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No'; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.

 

In our networking, political worlds, we often find shaded communications the norm.  Jesus is a straight shooter.  His admonition to us is to avoid dependence on excuses and other items like, "I swear by the heavens", over which we have no control.  Simply say yes or no He tells us.  Connecting with Jesus brings connection with a simple, clear answer.    Connecting with Jesus strengthens us to give a simple, clear answer and commitment when other's depend on us.

 

Recent communications between managers were evasive.  The one manager wanted absolutes.  There were no absolutes in giving 100% error free, mind reading service.  There were no absolutes in predicting people’s mistakes and accommodating for them in advance.  Finally, the service manager found a solution.  He could promise a clear and consistent process.  He could not commit to error free people.  He could commit to a measureable system of checks.  The communications clarified. They would never fully satisfy the demanding manager, who wanted 100%, but they would satisfy conscience.

 

ACT! Get straight on a miscommunication.  Think of a commitment you have made that really was neither a yes or no.   Make a decision and connect with the other person.  Tell them yes or no.

 

PRAY!  Father, help me to be like Jesus.  Give me clarity when I call to you.  Build clarity in me when I am called upon by others.  Show me direction.  Give me sound discretion in all decisions that I might be reliable and relied upon.  Bolster my confidence in You and in Your ability to follow through in me.  Let me not speak in shades of gray when people need clear and simple lines.  

 If we can pray for you regarding anything in your life, please let us know.  Our greatest blessing is to bless others in prayer. .  www.prayermetro.com   Phil@prayermetro.com

 

 

Phil Larson, 508 Tumbleweed Dr., Yukon, Oklahoma 73099  405-388-8037

 

Committed

Matthew 5: 31 “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ 32 But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.

 

Committed:

On first read, these verses look like they are about marital breakup.  Yes, they are.  And they are about more than that.  They are about commitment.  Connecting with Jesus is about connecting with commitment.  This is the man, who sought out Peter after being horribly betrayed.  This is the God, who found and met with over 500 after going through a beating and violent death.  At the time of the death, less than five stood at the bottom of the cross.  He searched out the others.   This is the friend, who will never leave us or forsake us.

                                                                          

Relationships:

What challenge does that give us in relationships?  Several years ago, a neighbor came to visit. They had moved away from the neighborhood some years before and we had moved also.  The woman explained how the entire family was following Christ, now.  She wanted us to know.  Over the years, our children, my wife, and I had conversations about Christ with different family members.  Ten years had gone by in that neighboring relationship. During some of it, we semi-raised one child before she went to school.  Commitment broke through.

 

Mis-Takes

We surely make mistakes in relationships.  Some don’t repair.  Some don’t work.  Don’t beat yourself over failed relationships.  Build faithfully better into the next one.  If Jesus can handle a direct denial by Peter, a close friend, He can handle our screw ups.  Choose to build God’s way.  Grow in your ability.  Correct where possible.  Repeat continually.

 

ACT!  Take time to invest in a relationship.  Build instead of break.  Boost instead of loose. 

 

PRAY!  Father, my hope is in You.  Always, we are challenged to keep active our relationships.  Teach us to manage the few You give to us.  You manage millions of relationships.  Teach us to stay faithful as You stay faithful.. Thank You for being the One that is faithful even when we are not.  We need that.

 

 If we can pray for you regarding anything in your life, please let us know.  Our greatest blessing is to bless others in prayer. .  www.prayermetro.com   Phil@prayermetro.com

 

Phil Larson, 508 Tumbleweed Dr., Yukon, Oklahoma 73099  405-388-8037